Feeling Blah and Uninspired? How to Go From Fizzling to Sizzling in 2023!

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You know what the best feeling in the world is?

When your life feels sizzling!

It’s that feeling of waking up in the morning and being excited about what you get to do that day.

It’s that feeling of being on purpose.

The feeling of passion – like you’re doing something that fills you up.

Something that’s meaningful to you, and gives you a deep sense of satisfaction, even when it’s hard.

I know what it’s like to live without that feeling.  In fact, I spent most of my adult life in that place.  

I don’t think my conscious mind allowed me to recognize exactly what I was feeling at that time.  

Today I can easily recognize it as a lack of purpose…or at least a lack of purpose in something I felt passionate about.  

What I did know is that I felt restless.  

What I did know is that I felt agitated, stuck, and unsatisfied.

What I did know is that I felt like I was constantly striving and pushing to make things work…

…like I was always swimming against the current.

And I felt a deep longing inside for something I couldn’t quite put my finger on, but something that would just make me feel full.  

Today I can see that I desperately wanted my life to feel sizzling!  

Instead, it was fizzling.

Now don’t get me wrong.  I had a lot of good things in my life.  In fact, if you were watching me from the outside looking in, you probably would have thought my life was on fire!

I was married to the love of my life (still am).  We started a company together and got to travel on business to exciting destinations, like Hawaii, Aruba, and Jamaica.  We went to conferences in fun cities, like Las Vegas, New York, San Diego, and Tel Aviv.  And I got to work from the comfort of my home long before “WFH” was a thing.  

Pretty great, right?  

I should have been happy.  And I was happy in some of those moments.  

But overall, there was a key piece missing from my life that no amount of travel or comfort could make up for.  Something that left a deep sense of emptiness in me, even when I was networking on a white sand beach or from behind the velvet rope of an elite nightclub. 

Today I have that piece in my life:  a purpose I feel passionate about

And it’s worth way more than any external perk I ever had.

It’s work that I love.  Work that feels true to who I am.  Work that’s in alignment with my values and my greatest strengths, and that makes me feel like I’m doing something meaningful in the world.

Even on hard days, when I feel discouraged because things aren’t moving as fast as I want them to,  or I’m dealing with technology or accounting systems or something else that’s necessary, but not exactly fun for me…

…I still feel lit up by my purpose.  It fuels me.

It’s exactly that thing I was longing for to make me feel “full”.

It’s that thing that travel, comfort, or even my husband – the love of my life – could never give to me.  I should have known all along that it had to come from me – it had to come from within.  But I spent a lot of time trying to fill that void with things outside of me.

If you can relate…if you’re following the same pattern and longing to feel fulfilled…lit up…and passionate about your life, I’m here to help.

Even if you have no idea what you want or where to start, we’ll work together to:

  • Crack the code on what’s at the root of your dissatisfaction.
  • Explore the obstacles that are keeping you stuck in a “fizzling” situation.
  • Identify the things that light you up and make you feel full. (I promise they’re there, even if you can’t think of a single one right now!)
  • Find ways for you to do more of what makes you feel alive, and less of the things that suck the life right out of you!
  • Articulate your purpose based on what makes you feel the MOST alive and lit up!
  • Create a clear vision for the sizzling life you want to live.
  • Design a plan that takes you from where you are now to where you want to be.
  • Break that plan into small steps that allow you to stay consistent, instead of getting overwhelmed by big changes and falling back into your old pattern.

To get started, book a FREE Meet & Greet call with me here ⇒ https://soulfireshift.com/coaching.

Make 2023 the year you claim the life you truly want to be living.  Life is too short to settle for fizzling.  You deserve SIZZLING!

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